RE: Hey, What's Up???
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Indeed, there doesn't always have to be something to be shared or "up". That's why I choose when I ask that question. When I'm in a hurry or I know that someone has just lost someone dear to them. When people want to tell you something or are ready to share, then it's on their terms.
But funny though, that when it comes to me I usually always have something to tell or say 😅
Especially when I meet up with my cousin and she asks "what's new?". Usually the first thing's "nothing much", but before you know it I have a ton to share. Haha but that's just me
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Well i do have oftentimes so many things to share but i don't share with everyone... but there's something that I noticed... when I was writing this post, I Googled for replies to "nothing much" and I saw that almost nobody likes if they get a reply "nothing much". And they couldn't even keep an open mind to the other person's situation... I was actually glad that my friend had kept an open mind to it lol
Well that's a good friend 👍
On the flip side there are also people who don't like to be asked that question, because they feel as if people just ask as a way of greeting, but are not really interested in the answer. In situations like these it's indeed better to have an open mind.