Thoughts on judgement!

We the humans has a common attribute of judgement. We try to judge a person from the beginning. Here i mentioned beginning because we do it.
For example if a stranger comes to you and says hello with a salam and a pleasant smile we would take that person as a good man. That's the first impression. You don't know what's his character truly is!

Keep aside the first impression we often get to judging others activities by seeing their works from the outside without getting into that. We just pass a judgement out of the air. Sometimes we get into chaos with our nearest and dearest ones due to misunderstanding which leads us to judge wrong about them. In reality our that kind of judgement is wrong and we do make things worse.

Their is a proverbs that says,"Don't judge a book by its cover." That means to say we can't really know about a thing without going deep of that. You gotta know about that fully and then pass a judgement on that. For example you can't get to know how intelligent a scholar can be by his outlook. Like you wont be able to know about a dish without tasting that. So everything needs a try and proper research to get into that for a judgement.

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I know a person who is a big businessman in our area.Who has built a lot of wealth by his work from the zero to hundred. In his daily life he wears a lungi and a normal shirt as his usual outfits. In his workplace you would see him working hand in hand with his workers, helping them out in many things. His talking style is also very common. Like no pride of money, no attitude just like a normal soul talking to you.Anyone would mix him up with any common man. Nobody would know him as such a wealthy and successful man. As its his choice to remain like an ordinary people doesn’t make him ordinary, he has his own built place under the feet which may get out of anyone’s eye if they try to judge him without knowing about him in a proper way. That's a good example i have seen in my real life. It keeps if think twice before judging anyone without knowing well about that person.

Sometimes we also judge people by their mask on behaviour as a good person and later he or she turns out to be the bad one. Which is really unacceptable. So Everytime we shouldn’t be hurry in judging anyone without the proper information because those leads towards to chaos and problem.

So personally i always prefer to know about a thing first then make a judgements. Sometimes i also make haste in judging a person or things which may hit back often. So its my own opinions and thoughts about judgement in my todays writing. Hope you guys also do agree with me. If you have other thoughts or anything to add then feel free to say through the comment box. I would be glad to hear from you. Thank you for your time. Have a great time!