How to recognize your psychological progress and maturity in life ... Ignoring is the key

in LERN2 months ago (edited)

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You should master the art of ignoring, get used to letting go of things that try to provoke you, knowing that not everything deserves a response.
Ignore the people who ignore you, you do not need to worry about them because they are living well, but your frequent questioning about them made them feel arrogant, and that no matter how they ignored you, you will return and ask about them as if you are one of their life luxuries.
Follow in your life the principle: "Ignore some people, and some things for your psychological comfort, regardless of the outcome."
Ignore what hurts you and only pay attention to the people who deserve it, because if you learn to ignore you will pass through half of life's problems, as ignoring is the best response to people with whom talking is not helpful.

Ignoring is the simplest gift you give yourself when the trivialities of life are crowded around you. Always remember that ignoring is an act of refined revenge for those who lack politeness because not everything is worth standing up and consuming your time. Invest your time in things that are more beneficial to you and your psychological comfort. Focus on developing yourself instead of paying attention to those who have no mission in life other than reducing your resolve and trying to put you down.

Live your life as you want it, otherwise, you will be a copy of another person who moves you like a doll, ignore the opinions of others and do what you see fit for your life, it is your life and you're the only one who knows what suits you. When you ignore these people, you will realize that the people who deserve your attention are close to you, but you distanced them from yourself when you cared about the unworthy.

Do not follow the principle of abuse, otherwise, there will be no difference between you and them, as bad manners from you will allow your opponent to provoke you again, so you are not obligated to respond to verbal abuse

In the end ... Be a little talkative and follow the principle of ignoring, when you reach this stage you will find that this is the beginning of your psychological maturity in life and you will feel happiness and psychological comfort, because the people who remained around you are the only people who deserve your attention, and you will find that you have progressed in your life without obstacles.

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Hello Friend @nourtawfiq

Excellent topic you chose for today.

You're right. Ignore those who ignore us, bother us, envy us, mistreat us, challenge us to fight or disgust, insult us, offend us, abandon us, leave us, discriminate against us, say bad words, deceive us, it is not easy . However, our emotional stability depends on our achieving it with practice over time.

Very good publication.

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Hi @nourtawfiq, thanks for the mention!

"ignoring is the best response to people with whom talking is not helpful." ...

"When you ignore these people, you will realize that the people who deserve your attention are close to you, but you distanced them from yourself when you cared about the unworthy."

I agree with this 100%, only at times we realize a bit too late who is unworthy and it takes time before you can look back and appreciate who "remained around you" and deserves your attention.

Thanks again for helping us out and making an early post on LERNblogs.com

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Thank you sir