Sometimes Life gives us Bad and Painful Surprises
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Life is all about challenges and I hope that many of you will agree with me that every day something new comes up to face and overcome the challenge. Somewhere in the mind we have thought that challenges are part of life earn we just can't go away with it because if we're alive we will have to deal with it. Sometimes few incidents in our life make us weak and it takes a long time to come back on the track like before. Pain of losing someone who is close to us is very painful.
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The last two days have been very much painful for me because I have lost my brother-in-law and he was very close to me. it's been two days almost I am not able to believe that this has happened because I'm still in shock since I was not at all expecting it. He was suffering from throat cancer for the last three months and treatment was going on. Doctors were saying that it will take up lock months and he should be fine but I don't know what happened wrong last two days and he has left this world. It is a very big loss to me and I don't know how to keep myself neutral in this situation and although I'm trying my best but seems like nothing is working.
Life is all about moving on and I just can't keep myself he's stuck here for the length so I think the best way would be to recover from this loss to keep myself busy as much as possible. I wanted to take a break for a couple of days from this platform but then I thought that this will not be the right way since if I keep myself free then I'll think more about it so it's better if I can keep myself occupied with various things and this way I should be able to forget it soon. I don't think that I have any other way than to forget this loss and stop thinking about the man I lost. I'm writing this post to share how I am feeling, and I hope that in the next few days I should be much better.
I know that I need to stay strong in this situation and I'm also trying my ways but it's really very difficult I must say. Life gives us surprises but this kind of surprises are very painful and I hope that no one has to go through this kind of situation ever in life
Thank you so much for reading my post.
So sorry about your loss dear @alokkumar121 I understand how painful the situation must be right now but I need you to know that you will have to stay strong for your wife and certainly everything will fall into place, I wish you peace my friend.
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Greetings @alokkumar121,
No doubt it is a difficult situation and I am aware that the pain is felt only by the one who suffers it, it is surprising because just a few days later a cousin died with the same conditions, I am not sure if we are talking about the same person or it is just a matter of coincidence
thanks a lot my friend
Life is full of losses, it is inevitable to pass through some of them because we are children of death and we must continue because there is no other alternative, in the future it will be others who will suffer ours. The pain of a loss does not pass, simply as a method of defense we transform it into resignation but it is latent before any stimulus to remind us of that person we lost, that is why psychologists recommend a period of mourning to the affected person. Condolences for your loss and we must continue. @tipu curate 3
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Thank you so much @joseph1956
Hi @alokkumar121.
These are very difficult situations, even though we know that moments like these will happen to us at any moment of our lives, I think we will never be prepared for this situation.
I hope you can be better soon and remember the best moments of your brother in law. Best regards.
thank you.
hi dear friend @alokkumar121
My condolences, I know how you feel it is very difficult, for me it is difficult to explain how I know but I can assure you that your relative is in another world, most people call heaven, I am sure he is protecting you and your family, from there.
God Bless you
Thank you so much
My condolences. Life is perverse and we never know when God will come for us. After the death of people close to us, it is not easy to function normally for the next few days. It is very good that you have a job and you will remember a good man forever..
thank you so much @jozef230 for your nice words.