Never tell anyone your plans
There are people who love to tell their projects, plans, feelings and personal among other things, where you should be careful who you say, because sometimes we are so naive to share the most precious with our friends, believing that everyone does not want to see Well when the vast majority is the opposite, there is a lot of envy, people who hate that one shines, because if that person has not done it, they will not want you to do it. First I will tell you a little fable.
The Fable of the Snake and the Firefly
Legend has it that once, a snake started chasing a firefly; it was fleeing fast from the fierce predator, but the snake did not intend to give up.
She fled one day and she did not give up, two days and nothing.
On the third day, the Firefly stopped and, pretending to be exhausted, she said to the snake:
- Wait, I give up, but before you catch me let me ask you a few questions.
- I am not used to answering questions from anyone, but as I intend to devour you, you can ask me.
- Do I belong to your food chain?
- Do not.
- Did I do you any harm?
- Do not.
- So why do you want to finish me off?
- Because I can't bear to see you shine.
The firefly dared to gather that information, because she wanted to understand the situation that clearly seemed pointless to her.
Once aware of the snake's envy, she just smiled and flew even higher and faster, so the snake was left wanting that bite so luminous that she proved to be out of reach of her.
In a final wink of light from her, the winged critter yelled at the snake, high above her: - "It is time for you to learn to shine yourself in such a beautiful way that we fireflies still observe your great radiance with admiration"
Reflection
Around us we can have people like the snake envious of our brightness, or the brightness that we want to achieve, it is because of them today I want to tell you that you must keep it a secret and do not tell anyone, so that envy does not reach you, the bad energy does not overshadow you, or that no one comes first to steal your treasures.
Your future plans
What you must ask yourself is what is the advantage of telling that person your plans for the future. It is normal that your life has plans, goals and objectives that can be incredible that you want to share with other people, either because that person knows it, or to help you but are you sure that person will help you? Since we always have that feeling that people will also be happy for our goals, but sometimes it happens that that person demotivates you with that is impossible, do not go down that path, it will give you a doubt whether to start it or not. There are some who want to see you well but never better than them. Except for those people who do not have plans, you should never tell them your plans for the future, since they will be the first to speak ill of the projects you have in mind, because they will not want you to be a successful person.
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Can I start by saying this is a wake up call for everyone here and even a life guidance when it comes to getting our dreams and purpose in life,let me say good one from you for going this far to help life and educate users here with this.
Permit me to really go out of content a little bit as I will love to express myself well enough on this,cause this to me is a bit personal and I won't mind sharing a story while doing this.
Life to me as a way of teaching us different lesson in life and I want to bodly say not everyone around us is happy about our progress in life,so it is advisable that we know who are who to go about with our plans in life
It is very important we also identify the level of people around us as their character at times determine the level of progress get in life,it is very clear that people around us too have influence in what happens to us
To me after reading this content,I strongly believe that we should be careful of people around us ,so as to know the kind of people around us, positivity of people around us another way of getting us motivated and pushing nus to the top.
But irespective if how close we are to people or the level of intimacy that we have with those around us,we still need to be very careful so as to get our dreams in life.
Let me say that people don't celebrate failure in life ,they only celebrate success too,so it is advisable that we keep our plans to ourself first and let our success shock the World at times,but I still strongly believe that having the right people around us is vital in life.
This is actually a great topic and I believed you've had a lot of experience regarding the casualties this cause.
We have to learn to keep our plans to ourselves without exposing to people.
Understand what you said and getting to tell you this people minds are evil most times and they put on happy face and pretend to care for your success in life without you knowing your downfall is been planned by who you trusted with you plans.
Let's learn to surprise people with our success stories and not our success plans because when you vent your plans and strategies to the wrong fellow or friend they do what's possible to stand on your was.
Humans are full of envy no matter how hard we may try to hide it envy tends to cross our minds but is better we show it or say it out to be free than bearing it in our mind.
Thank you for this great lesson we humans have to understand and learn how to keep things to ourselves before telling the success story.
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