“There Will Always Be One Queen, And That Is His Mother” My Friend’s Selfless Words That Resonance In Me

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Hello there…
With this post, i want to share about an experience that i got few days ago while i accompanied my friend.
So, in the morning my friend suddenly called me.
When i picked up, she asked me to go with her to her future in law’s house.
Ofcourse, i was surprised and asked why would she asked me to go there with her.
She then tell me the reason why she needs to go there is to celebrate her future mother in law’s birthday.
Her future husband is in military so he cant go out that day.
She needs someone to go there with her because her brother told her not to go alone, the house is so far.
Well, when we went there, i admit that the house is so far and its a better choice to take someone.
Especially because she didnt remember the house by heart yet and still need to use a maps.
Before we went to her in law’s house, we went to buy gifts, which i ended up buying something for my mother too.
We spent 1 hour in the car to reach her future in law’s house.
When we arrived, we waited in the car for a minute and then her future sister in law came out of the house and took us in.
So actually, she planned to make a surprise but its failed because the sister already told her mother that my friend will come to their house.
So long story shot, we spent 2 hour in the house.

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Then, whats all of that relation to me???
In the car, on our way back, i told her that she looks so friendly and so sincere to his family, then i asked her if she fake it or something.
Her answer is really nice and i felt that resonance in me.
She said that she’s truly being sincere because she wants to build a family with all of them, not only do marriage.
Then there’a this one phrase that she said i really like, “Its impossible to have two queen in the house, there will always be one queen, and thats his mother.”
I think that her selfless thinking is really admirable.
She doesn’t try to monopolize her husband and understand that her husband is the child of her mother first before becoming her husband.
I saw so many daughter in law fighting the affection of her husband with his mother.
Surprisingly or not, 2 of 3 married women that i saw hate their mother in law.
Then again, for what?
Why would you want to make your mother in law your enemy while she can be your greatest support if you can reach her heart?
Why not make you love you so much that she will think of you as her own dear children?
What my friend said is really true, the queen in our husband’s heart should always be his mother, while we are his partner, and he’s no king either.
I remembered how my late grandma really love my mother.
Even sometimes i think more than her own daughters.
That can only happen with selfless love, that understand love is the way.
There’s no need to fight for the husband’s care and affection with mother.

Once again, i realized the greatness of selflessness in life.
Selflessness can take you far in life and one of the key of true happiness.



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Wow! Your friends selflessness is inspiring. She's actually a nice person. It's good to forfeit things for other people especially the ones you call family. She's gonna make a great wife.


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