The moment she realized how she wasted 14 years. POB-WOTW #013 EUREKA

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The word of the week reminded me of the story of a lady called Praise who wasted fourteen years(14 years) of her life before discovering what she really wanted.

Eureka is an exclamation used to express a triumph upon a discovery. Join me as I give the full details of the story.

There were 3 friends Joy, Blessing and Praise who finished college together, knowing how hard it was then to gain admission into an institution, they became very close so as to help each other read and pass for the forthcoming examination(JAMB) that would enable them for admission into the university. Unluckily for them, they were shared into different schools, due to that, they had to part ways.
Joy and Blessing got admitted to the same university, had their desired courses to study, met with good students who served as guardians to them throughout their first and second year in the school. They later finished school and came out with good results.

On the other hand, Praise the third lady with the story was forced by the father to study his own desired course, Law which almost led to her doom. The school authority complained to her parent and asked her to change environment due to the unserious act she had pulled up in school.

Will I say the course was too hard for her, or it was not what she wanted which was seriously affecting her education. She mad a transfer and went to another university, in this new institution, she wasn't coping at all due to the fact that she was attending two different department's lecture together the department of Law and the department of international relations. In her third year in the institution, she had the lowest grade point in her class, and had to stop schooling for a while.

By this time, people had started blaming the father for choosing and forcing his daughter to study a particular course, on the other hand, Praise didn't really know what she wanted. This same act of changing school persisted till 14 years was wasted, she had to leave the parent's place because it had became something shameful to her.

One day she went to a nearby supermarket where she met one of her old Friends Joy, who had graduated years back looking good with 2kids(happily married). They created time for discussion, Praise narrated what had gone wrong when they parted ways in tears and in sorrow. Joy advised her to take a bold step and stand for herself by following her own dreams and not her father's.

Joy helped Praise to get a Jamb form and helped her study like their past days. Praise passed the examination and was admitted to a new university and to offer her choice course, international relations. She faced some challenges both at home and in school but she was able to conquer them with the help of her friend.

After some years, Praise finally graduated and bagged her certificate, not only did she graduate with good grades, her grades were the best among her colleagues that year which made her to be given scholarships to further her education and also a place of work, regarding the course she finally studied International Relations.

She remembered the past years she had wasted when she thought there was no hope again and her present life where all hopes had been restored, she was full of joy as she could not contain it, she bursted in tears thanking God for being good to her.

After wasting fourteen years of her life, she finally discovered herself and rejoiced on her triumph, all thanks to her friend, Joy, who enlightened and admonished her to go for her choice instead of her father's choice.

This is my input for the pob-wotw #013, EUREKA, initiated by @calcumam. Thanks for reading through.


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First I want to know is it a real story or a fiction?

We are given with one life. Patents shouldn't force their kids to follow their instructions, instead they should provide a comfortable environment for the kids so that they may pursue their dreams

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A real story, it happened to a relative. I agree with the fact that children have their lives to live and they should be given the opportunity to do so


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Started off great, then sad, but then great again.

It's a relief she pulled through. At least, the wasted years won't matter as though she still got to get destination. Those struggles were just distractions put out in place to cause ups and downs in her life.


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Nice content and we'll composed story line which really touched me.

My say on this is short I guess ,but I must admit that parent at times you not let their decision or wish to come first when it comes to a child choosing a career,it is not a crime to have a desire career for a child,which me as a person I want to believed this is fine to do that,but on most cases the ability.of the child should be check and the child should be the one to agree with them that am going for it and not them imposing such child to do the choice of career that they want.

Imagine if praise as done the choice of her course at the early stage of her life she would have go far even much more than she later get after getting her way back after a wasteful 14 years.
No parent should ever allow their choice of career over ride the ability of their child


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They believe they know what is best for their children not considering their ability

Half of these parents' decision don't usually end well for the children


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