Do You Want To Separate Sadness From Happiness?
When you feel lost, it doesn't mean your life is over. It was just bad timing. Not your whole life.
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Do you want to separate sadness from happiness? That won't be possible. It's like two sides of a coin that have only different sides, like day and night. That's how life gives us a way to learn to understand how joy can never feel happy until we recognize sadness.
Happy people don't mean those who never feel sad. Precisely the happy people are the ones who hurt the most, yet they manage to walk out of the wound. Happy people manage to enjoy sadness as part of the art of life that cannot be separated from the essence of happiness itself.
If we could possibly remove sorrow and suffering from this world, we might as well be bored. We will never think of happiness as something special. Because we never go through various emotional and spiritual lessons when sadness and misery strike us.
I know, you just hate the pain and loneliness that strikes when you're in sorrow and misery. No one can ever truly understand your pain other than yourself. But don't be angry. In fact, we are only humans who are lost in the forest of life. But that doesn't mean we can't enjoy life. Maybe behind the silence of the forest of life, you will learn to become an expert in something that you can never do when you are no longer lost in the forest of life.
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Maybe, you miss an existence that is illuminated by your high value of existence in the eyes of society. The fact is that you are lost among the thick trees searching for your own identity. Make longing your encouragement to seek whatever you have to find in your goal.
In forests that are only covered in darkness, cold, lonely, maybe even starving. You will learn to endure, even on your last hope that is only left in your breath.
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The thing that makes you feel even more miserable even though it's actually less painful than others, it's your focus that doesn't let you see the other side to move your sadness even a little.
Change your focus. Don't be led by sadness and feel that you are the most suffering person in this world. I know you just want to feel cared for. But the painful fact is that people can never really pay attention to you, other than yourself. So learn to look for things that are worth enjoying while you are sad, maybe it is the beginning of your new happiness. Who knows. :)
You will be beautiful in your time.
This writing is inspired by my daily life when I process many things. I wanted to take note of it all and maybe it's worth reading for you guys. Who knows. :)
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Anggrek Lestari
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Thanks, my friend :)
You're absolutely right about something, we cannot replace happiness with sadness, life has diverse emotions, including good and bad and they sort of balance themselves out. Being positive in any circumstance is definitely key.
and, needed more and time to learn about being positive in all aspects of our life. then to attraction good things :)
Definitely correct. The aesthetics of your blog is quite amazing hahaha. The formatting skills are wonderful as well. Keep it coming always.
Indeed those two sides are separate ends of the same one coin. one cannot exist without the other. It's important to value happiness when it comes, we can't even value it without experiencing sadness in the first place.
So they are both necessary in the journey of life. But is important tend towards happiness no matter how the situation may look like as dwelling in sadness can lead one to depression.
It is true, you have to know how to enjoy the good moments, even if they are very small, and the sad moments know how to take and accept them, it is not a good idea to try to reject them nor is it healthy.
how are you dear friend @anggreklestari good afternoon
Excellent post, invites a great reflection.
What you say is very open, if there were no stiffness, it would hardly be possible to appreciate happiness. I really appreciate you sharing this thoughtful post
I wish you a beautiful afternoon. what do you enjoy very much
There is no growth with first facing challenges and we can experience happiness without first experiencing sadness. They are intricately linked.
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Well those are wise life lessons and others could take something out of it. I also think that if you don't know sadness, how will you determine the value of happiness and from my social background I know that sadness is a normal feeling. The intensity may differ from individual to individual, but it's normal. We only need to learn to give it a name, address it and move on.
Ah, yes. Being selfish is the best :P don't care about what others say but be selfish about your own feelings....(coz really no one else can about your feelings better than you can)
Life, the world, the universe is like this: Dual. Without light there is no shadow, without difficulty there is no effort ... The key is to understand, learn, thank and let yourself flow with the circumstances of life, always in search of balance. Very beautiful poem. Greetings.