Sensitivity When Expecting Appreciation #NewSteem - Blockchain Coffee “Knife”
In life we always seem to be presented with situations surrounded by complications that we 🤦♂️ can only hold ourselves accountable for. We require acknowledgment yet desire appreciation and often times they are in direct conflict relative to whether we 👍 agree or 👎 disagree with the context of the subject.
The trouble I see is in the sensitivity of those involved and our requirement of being appreciated for our conflicting opinions, is not being acknowledged enough? If we did not have a need for being appreciated for our conflict 😅 I speculate to say we would not get angry with discussion!
Think 🤔 of it this way, technology is largely involved, as the speed of society changes so does our discussions. No longer do we see the long debates at town hall with all city members involved. The sit and debate style of conversation has disintegrated into passive aggressive posturing with 🖖 quick ✌️inconsiderate and 🖕dismissive communications. People do not ask for further information, grill for details and search for flaws. They, the 🐑 Sheeple, simply consume things at face value.
There was a day when a moment to run your 🤔 idea in front of eyes with importance was in high demand and the conversation that followed would most likely be 😬 critical and all those that follow would be also, the business mindset. Yet in those times when we only had face to face for group discussion and the conversation was often long winded and drawn out. Each person has time to 🗣 air their views and it would only begin moving forward when having majority agreement. It was expected, it was discussion and though it was often critical there was always a sense of how presenting yourself was reflecting of your case.
Presenting ourselves as ignorantly belligerent bafoons and trying to have cases for world change such as many hardcore activists that get coverage only hinders the message we are trying to preach. I see usually the hostility of the situation comes from the sensitivity of one individual or the other for one thing or another. If we are less sensitive to the conflict or critical analysis it suddenly becomes easier to present ourselves in the best interest of our cases.
Simply Put!
We need to cut through our boundaries creating the sensitivities when expecting appreciation. Prepare ourselves for actual discussions and defend our cases in a way that we present ourselves in the best interest of the desired end result! Have confidence in our message and most importantly, cut through the BS of others....
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Hmm, this is a hard topic.😊 If we just stay to the topic of discussion, trying to get a solution of the problem, instead of using the approach "I am right, and you are not so right", I think we don't have this problem.
Exactly we always seem to end up at the who’s more right argument with yelling and name calling instead of a diplomatic discussion. The moment either side of an argument stops listening to the others points of discussion and replying with justifiable debate the actual discussion is over, often this is before it even starts!
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You are so right. Many are more harmful to a cause than helpful...
Case in point kawaiicrush taking on the flag war trying to expose the flaws in the platform but having her message suppressed due IMO to how the subject is being approached. Remember those “I Can Be A Troll Too” posts? That was when I got caught in the cross fire which made me stop listening but I have always been aware and agree though my tactics are through making the change rather then fighting the battle!
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battles seldom lead to anything good - if ever. Right now, I am not sure how to deal with the future on this platform...