Even The Perfect Gentlemen Do Have Their Own Share Of Breakups

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What I saw while scrolling through my twitter feed today was somehow scary and made me had this thought and even asked myself this particular question "What exactly do some lady want", they always say they want this perfect gentle man who will treat them right and all and once they meet such man, they will start looking for something else, there is this saying that women are dramatic in nature, it really took me time to believe that to be honest until someone close to me (A guy) who i could easily tag as a perfect gentleman got his own breakup verse. Back in the days I do keep two type of guys, the good one which we do term the pastors and the bad guys (the one ladies do prefer to have) and based on what I have seen (experiment) back in school days, a lady will always pick the bad one over the goods ones even when they know they won't be treated right and even till now I still don't know why.

Let me share some part of this guy story that is in line with the pick above, yes this particular good guy feel in love with a lady who according to him loved him first, the guy was really careful until he was sure the lady love him before making a move so he won't be disappointed, the relationship really started well and at some point, I was wishing I could have such relationship, because the love was really obvious, this guy don't talk or look any other ladies side, nor argue or even fight this lady because it was him and her against the world, if she offend him, he will beg her and still forgive her, if he offend her, he will beg her again, all he wanted was to be the good guy he was but you know ladies dramatic behaviour will always set in at some point.

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Fast forward to when things started changing, the lady was acting odd, she is beautiful and had lot of toasters, different guys wanted her and we all cooking up stories but like the flexible one, one of the guys got to her, enticed her with stuff and all, the guy noticed all the new odd behaviour, try to have a conversation with her just to know what is going on but he got the shocking news, she was like " I fell out of love for you because you are too perfect for me and there is no way I can catch up with such perfection " then she said sorry that she was in love with someone else (to cut is short). He was pained yet confused, i was too though because I know how some guys out there use to treat ladies like trash yet someone is treating you good and you quit because he is perfect and you couldn't meet up.

Since that day I fear ladies and I even tried to investigate her next relationship with the new guy as the new CID in town, It was true the new relationship I knew about the word "stockholm syndrome" because the relationship was like a victim in the hand of her captor because it was full of toxic yet she was hoping the new guy will change one day until they end it after a year of hoping thing will change. Even up to this days, I still don't understand why ladies do wish to have a perfect gentlemen who is good in all ways but they still want a little bit of drama, that touch of toxicity, I just hope they learn one day.