Communication | The Currency Of Relationship

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At times I do wish we are in a world where we don't really have to communicate, not to be deaf and dumb and start using sign language but to at least only communicate on some certain things alone (If possible). when it come to relationship, they use to say trust is the bedrock of a relationship and now I must say communication is what make it beat ( just like how the heart keeps us alive). There are really lot of things to it and not just about talking and acknowledging your partner when it come to relationship, it is always about been a good listener and also understanding what you are listening to, in this world we are now, having good communication in relationship is long gone and almost going into extinction, we tend not to be really bothered and tend to hide behind social media at times where we spend most of our times.

There are some things I do love to emulate in some strong relationship I do come across, at times I do wonder how they manage to stay that strong and avoid all tides and I do realise they learn to communicate about everything instead of making assumptions at times, I was strolling through the stress of instagram one day when I listen to a lady speaker who talked about how she and her husband was able to keep their marriage fire burning for 29 years and counting, there is a no way a man and woman will be in a roof together for years without arguing but the way they try to solve it really matters, they always make sure they treat every matters and choose a standing point before the sun set for the day and it has been working for them.

Communication is actually one things that has really spoilt my relationships and I had to even hang my boot because I'm somehow tired, I'm the reserve one because I love observing a lot, but the fact that I rarely talk always bring lot of conclusion and at times they are always out of proportions. As a partner, there are things to actually talk about which include Financial Goals apart from all the goodies in relationship, dreaming and setting up financial goals are always beautiful, you both get to build and perhaps get prepared for the future, you both get to shared more knowledge or insight about finances because no how, one partner will surely have more knowledge than the other and they get to lecture or guide each other. Most times I do feel jealous at times, it is always a thing of joy seeing partners having interesting in what each of them are doing and along the like they get to celebrate milestones together. Communication is really a key that is very important in relationship, and without it lot of ship will really sink.