How Debt Can Mess Up Your Future

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Do you have debt? If you do, you're not alone. Many people(myself included) struggle with debt these days. It can happen for many reasons, like spending too much, having an emergency, earning too little, or managing money poorly. But whatever the reason may be, debt can suck big time.

One of the most serious aspects of it is that it can affect your life in a not so good way which could lead to unwanted future consequences when not dealt with soon enough. This thing we call debt and being an integral part of finance is a double-edged sword. A sword with one of its sharp edges pointing at the future, trying to mess it up when used incorrectly.


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Credit Score And Reputation

Debt can stain one's reputation and bring down their credit score. A credit score is a number that shows how good you are with money based on your credit history and behavior. It is used by lenders, employers, insurers, and others to see how reliable or not reliable you are with money.

A high credit score unlocks good financial service benefits. Likewise, a low credit score decreases one's access to financial services both in quality and quantity. Debt can lower your credit score by making you use too much credit, pay late or not at all. Or even get into trouble with collectors who want their money back.

Reputation on the other hand, is how others see you based on your actions and character. Unlike businesses, It is used by friends, family, colleagues and others to see how trustworthy and respectable
you are.

With reputation, debt can make you lose respect or honesty in the eyes of others who may think
you are bad or dishonest with money. Which sometimes can be not true. On the same breath, this can also lead to fights and arguments, bad feelings, or mistrust with others who are involved in or affected by your debt situation.

That's why it's a great advice to try as much as possible to not bring money into personal relationships. The dynamics of trust can go from 100 to 0 real quick. I think bringing money into personal relationships is almost impossible. Instead, we could try to minimise its implications through effective communication when the situation arises.

When left unresolved, both low credit score and poor reputation are present problems that create a ripple effect that stunts one's financial growth in the future.

Chasing Dreams And Learning New Things

Chasing dreams and learning new things are awesome. Most of us look forward to them. However, having debt puts a sort of barrier between ourselves and the things we want to pursue. Figuratively, debt is like a chain that limits our movement. Or a cloud that follows us everywhere we go.

Learning new things helps us get more knowledgeable and possibly have more fun in life. Learning to become a painter(an artist) and painting being a hobby of yours can bring more fun to the experience.

Learning other ways to make money and then making more money can give you the ability to have more fun through traveling the world and experiencing different parts of it.

But debt can make it hard or impossible to afford learning new things. Both monetarily and non-monetarily. Monetarily, you don't have the funds to learn new things. Non-monetarily is being stressed out and losing focus on the process of learning new things.

Imagine tuning into a lecture about the 'theory of colors' with a maxed out credit card(s) and -20K in your bank account. You're there but you're also not there. I start to worry when I'm knee deep into debt.

With chasing dreams, options and choices are limited with debt. For example, what kind of work you can do or where you can work. Also, it prevents you from capitalizing on opportunities and taking risks that may cost money or require investment.

In Closing

Getting out of debt is a work in progress. Perhaps, knowing how it could affect us in the future is a great way to speed up the progress.

Many know the how's of getting out of debt. Which are earning more and spending less. Earning more pays off the debt and spending less prevents from accumulating more debt. It is the why that's a bit not clear.


Thanks for reading!! Share your thoughts below on the comments.



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You are right about money and personal reputation, it can respect can be lost quickly like it never existed.

It is always better to be careful, I've learnt a few lessons in my life I hope not to repeat the mistake of trusting people with money again because some are not good at paying debt even if they wish to pay.

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I've experienced something similar with a friend of mine. Ever since she owed me, she starting avoiding me like I'm the plague. Anytime I tried to talk to her about anything apart from the debt she thinks I'm indirectly asking for her to pay me back.

Money changes a lot in person relationships. Sometimes, even effective communication like I mentioned on the post doesn't solve the problem. Some people will just duck you and never come back up again.
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It is crazy how some get controlled by money to the extent that they allow it t ruin relationships.

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I don't like debts and credits. better I don't buy anything if I need to be a debtor for it.

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Indeed! Better to not entangle with it in the first place. Things can easily get out of control.
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A debtor will always remain a slave to the creditor.
A debtor will always be in the bondage of the creditor.
Some have disciplined themselves to the extent that they will never owe you.
They prefer to let the situation remain than for them to owe you.

I have a friend that will never owe you a penny. she prefers you owe her than for her to owe you.

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Those are people with integrity. They're not many these days. When you owe someone, the situation changes in a sense that one acts like the master and the other acts like the slave. It's much better to avoid it completely and just maintain that integrity.
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The main thing is to abstain from debt.

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debt can suck big time.

Even when the money was used for a good cause, debt still sucks real big 😢
Most especially those debts that are proving too too stubborn to deal with, it's so so annoying.
Nothing pains more than when a debt made you lose the respect, the reputation your friend and families have about you... It's really a frustrating one and with no doubt can mess with your psyche and future

I try to avoid bringing money into my relationship with friend and families by trying to not borrow more than I can forgo so that even when it proves abortive I'll be getting my money back, I'll just say goodbye to it but still the person lost his reputation I have for him

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A very interesting and insightful piece

To get out of debt, earn more and spend less

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Thank you! I believe the process to get out of debt is really that simple. Thanks for stopping by :)

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Debt is a high risk taken to overcome some things which later bites us... Maybe not.

Apart from God who is the giver of life that I believe I owe cos as they say;

Life is borrowed.

I don't owe debt. I am debt free. It is not that I am financially stable. No. My spirit do not agree with it.

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Yes yes! The spirit is unwillingly to plunge into the world of debt and we should listen to it. Life is indeed borrowed.
Thanks for stopping by :)

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Yes, we should. It has saved me a lot of stress.

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Owing debts is one thing I try to avoid as much as possible. It weighs me down when I remember that I'm owing a particular person certain amount of money. Sometimes, makes me look like a beggar or a dependent individual. I choose to work for any cash I am to spend and if the money I have is not enough, I would cut down some unimportant ones till I get sufficient cash to buy it. This is what I would rather do to have my peace of mind 💆.

I'm a type of person who loves learning new things always and since owing debt would prove to be an obstacle in achieving that , I will continue to run away from anything owing .
#Dreemport brought me here.

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I think that's the way to stop debt on its track before it spiral outs f control. Being in debt also mess with our minds and emotions in a sense that we tend to lack self worth or self esteem. Resulting in us thinking lowly of ourselves.

Same here too. It's either doing it debt free or not doing at all. I'm mostly comfortable with both.
Thanks again for stopping by from #dreemport :)

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Omg 😩
I try so hard that I may not fall in the hands of debtors! It's so super embarrassing! I do all I can to avoid being owed and not owing but sometimes some situation can't help at all! Like the ones you have mentioned above.
This is a reflecting and thoughtful post!

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Yes, sometimes it's just unavoidable depending on the circumstances we may find ourselves in. We just have the figure out ways to minimize its impact and get out of it ASAP.
Thank you! And thanks for stopping by :)

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