The World Will Just Bury You When You Are At Your Weakest
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The harsh realities of life can some times be very painful to understand unless you in actuality experience them your self you can never learn some of these harsh lessons. Something similar happened to me in my life just 5 years ago and I wanted to share with you all.
Five years ago I was diagnosed with a depression phase in my life but the issue was that I was injected with a problematic dose of psychotic stuff which I do not remember what it was however after getting injected just after a month an incident happened in my life which really shook my foundations.
I went to a marriage ceremony after one month of being injected with the psychotic medication and I was trembling literally as an after effects. My psychiatrist forgot to prescribe me a specific drug dosage which would stop this trembling but that day I was really trembling during that marriage ceremony.
But the biggest painful part of it was every one did not come to me to ask me how I was feeling because they saw me trembling they went directly to my parents and kept asking them what has happened to me.
After the marriage ceremony was over and I was driving the car my father told me that a total of 15+ person came to him telling him that I was trembling and that I had to revisit my doctor.
Well I learned something that day that when you are all down and out and weak you will never get help from any body in fact you will be buried and this is exactly what these so called family or family friends wanted to do to me. They were not least bit of concerned on how I really felt all they wanted to do is give grief to my parents by telling them how miserable my health was and truly to embarrass them just that.
These are so called Muslims and through out my life I have been under similar situations in life where I might have been in a very weak spot but no one came to help in fact every one laughed at me so you know what I learned something that it is best perhaps to be more dependant on one self because people when see you vulnerable they are gonna just bury you up like the title of this post says very depressing to read but very realistic.
You're absolutely right about it, people only will take you seriously when you'll be in good situations.
Yes but that is something gullible and understandable; the real issue a person has is realizing that people will never help him/her if found in a vulnerable/painful position in life in fact they will go on to give more trouble to that affected person.
We can't change mind of others, but yes we can try with our own attitude, we keep doing with them even if they're doing bad, it may help them to understand us easily :)
My friend you did not understand the situation here. The moral of this whole story is "Never show your self in public when you in a weak spot meaning illness or injury" I think the society we live in does not want to help or encourage people with disabilities or visible vulnerabilities in fact they want to finish off such people through their politics.
Fully understand and agreed with your point, but I still will repeat my same words as I did in last comment
People (not all of them) only consider you when you are in a situation where you can be useful to them, not when you can be a burden. Often, those who are dissatisfied with their lives instead, have to drown you in order to elevate their condition. I have seen many who have behaved this way, though not at my expense... and I have had almost more pity for them than for those suffering that momentary moment of weakness.
My wife and I I have learned very recently that society will say one thing, but they mean something completely different. They say that want to understand mental health issues, but the reality is, they’ll sweep people who experience these condition under the rug at the first opportunity.
It’s not right, and one would be correct in thinking that it’d be different in 2024, but the reality is that it’s not much different than it has always been. If you don’t understand it; get rid of it. That’s the mantra.
I’m sorry you had to experience the humiliation you described in your post. Especially that it came from family too. I know it’s easier said than done, but keep your chin up. I hope you’ve now found ways to manage your condition that are helping you to live your best life.