Happy weekendfor everyone whatever you go or plan to do do do it with the best attitude all the topics proposed by my dear @galenkp are very interesting and touch the fibers of all human beings while reading the options my mind flew quickly to the past when I was only 18 years old I do not remember it with sadness on the contrary, winning or losing is part of life with the firmness that always What happens is the best both for better and for worse why I chose the following option:

I grew up with a very, very conservative upbringing where everything was bad my mother was a seamstress and she designed our clothes I wore dresses and skirts and anything wide that didn't show your figure wearing pants was a sin you were going to get lost in hell let alone wearing bathing suits when I became a teenager I started to feel uncomfortable with this style of clothing but it was what I had.

I met a guy in church where I was a musician and we became boyfriend and girlfriend even though we met in church we thought differently I started my working life when I earned my first salary I went to the store I bought a skirt and when I put it on it was the scandal of the century.

However to avoid problems I kept wearing my skirts my boyfriend my first love always told me why I kept wearing that kind of old clothes sometimes it is difficult to break paradigms I was between a rock and a hard place or at least that's how I felt I didn't want to have problems with my family but neither with my boyfriend it is not easy to keep the balance.

One day after leaving church my boyfriend invited me to lunch and the subject of the skirt came up and we didn't agree on it, I know you may be thinking that I didn't love you then, maybe you are right at that time I didn't think so I saw it a few years later of course that experience made me change my lifestyle without forgetting my beliefs, my family had no choice but to accept me with time they also understood that one thing is to love God and another is fanaticism, today I wear the clothes I like without losing decorum.

Now I wear the clothes that I like but because of a skirt my boyfriend threw a tantrum and broke up with me, they say that men don't leave women, they left me hahaha, over the years many things have changed, everything that happens to us is for the better, even if it hurts us, losing is also a gain.