LA INICIATIVA DE 1+1=JUNTOS: Las 2 preguntas para tener mejores relaciones [Esp/Eng]

Este observar nos lleva a ser mejores en muchos aspectos lo que hace que las relaciones se fortalezcan, se den mejores entendimientos tomando como ejemplo los gustos, es como respetar el ser de cada persona sin necesidad de caer en momentos desagradables, sin dejar de ser uno mismo, siempre respetando a los otros. En estos ùltimos años esto ha ocurrido en mi relaciòn de pareja, guardo silencio en algunas situaciones pero no por no discutir sino que la otra persona se de cuenta ante ciertas situaciones que nos rodean.

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Every day a new learning or a new way of seeing things that for some reason before made it difficult for us to change that perspective. The subject of relationships is very significant in these times we live in and it seems that everything is tangled. I mean tangled when everyone expresses their feelings without giving or accepting the other person's point of view.

It seems that the information in the world of social networks about the subject is taken into account but without evaluating the personal part of how we feel or assume.

Several elements must be taken into account, although I also integrate the stage of life we are living and how we feel about the world we live in and that surrounds us.

To this, our friend @rosahidalgo leads us with her initiatives to find what resonates and makes us better people and thus live and enjoy better relationships. To do this, she invites us to answer some questions that make us reflect and evaluate ourselves on the subject of relationships, not only with our partners but also with those around us.

What do I need to know to have better relationships?

Taking into account the above, knowledge is very important, to know ourselves first, to look at ourselves in the sense of how we act, speak, and react to certain situations that we live. That's how I behave first... I consider it extremely important... the tendency to this is to look at the other and to fall into the criticism obviating the moment in which we act if we like it or not.

Maintaining serenity precisely to control anxiety before certain moments, I feel that we are very quick to create a situation that never happens, brings as a consequence precisely those faces, those terrible words that come out of our mouth and as @rosahidalgo expresses we are vibration, frequency what we say brings us closer to that which we do not want.

What do I have to do?

Learn to observe; first me, then others. Control that impulsive part that determines many of us and makes us create uncomfortable situations.

Observing leads me to understand more because it avoids that part of judging by the way we are artists. We should not judge.

By maintaining serenity because we are in a state of observation, we observe details, and we stop saying unpleasant words that harm ourselves and the atmosphere around us. It feels heavy.

How do I practice it?

Here is the big question, after assuming the inner world, placate our demons, practice a lot of being an observer, nothing simple...it is a constant reminder because we must become observers, sometimes I feel that I succeeded, things happen that make me remember to be an observer.

This observation leads us to be better in many aspects which makes relationships stronger, and better understandings in many aspects such as in tastes, it is like respecting the being of each person without the need to fall into unpleasant moments, without ceasing to be oneself, always respecting others. In recent years this has happened in my relationship with my partner, I keep silent in some situations not for not arguing but that the other person is aware of certain situations that surround us.

Translator DeepL