Worth the trails 🤨
We discovered that one of our church member who was equally my friend and once my school mate was pregnant, according to her she didn't see her period for five months and she thought it was infection so she didn't pay much attention to it until one day that she causally thought to get a pregnancy test (PT) and it came out positive she was indeed shocked 😲.
At that stage it was indeed impossible to have any successfully abortion so she actually didn't have any choice, she was a young vibrate young lady with a promising future who just completed her secondary level and was waiting for admission to the university and such thing happening at that moment was indeed a distraction.
I bet if she discovered about it earlier she would have aborted it without hesitation but fate had it's way, the crowd used her as an example for others or even a topic for discussion, she became a rhyme in everyone's lip, she barely stepped out because of the awful stares from people.
Her experience is something I would always recall, I normally hear this things happening to other out there but it doesn't get to me that well this one was really an exception. Anyone in those shoes would definitely have a lot of thinking to do especially for those who is their first time to be pregnant out of wedlock and in their young age.
WHAT IS REALLY UNEXPECTED 😟
What's really unexpected is those judging fingers ready to be pointed at you instead of a blessed fingers, those itching ears ready to hear your download fall and spread it out as fat as a fly runs instead of an ear ready to hear the truth and how it's hurts, a mouth ready to spread what the hear plus the ingredients the add in the story.
_WHAT'S YOUR CHOICE?_
If I were the one caught in such webs though it may be tough but I would certainly keep it because it's against my faith plus my conciseness won't let me do such, I have heard stories of people who people who tried abortion and they died in the progress while others tried it and the baby refuse to go plus some used herbal and the lost their womb or such, even experts can make mistake.
Is it really worth the risks, we don't really know what the future have in store for so I would say why not hold on for a little while, go through this pain for a little longer, go through the humiliation and slandering mouth plus the judging fingers.
Thanks for stopping by, your comments will be very much appreciated 👍
I once shared your sentiment but life has thought me a different lesson. In such situations I put the mother's interest first over ever other thing.
but boss, how will a girl have sex and not see her period then think its infection. she was just too young and naive
I have seen a case of someone who was pregnant and still menstruated for three months. It is weird thinking of infection but she might have a reason, what if she took prevention and was too sure about it?
Sex education is different for everyone and to be honest, pregnancy should come to her mind first.
yeah... That what i am saying. though most young people lack sex education but they should know that once you start having sex as a lady and you dont see your period, the first thing to do is pregnancy test. She was just to innocent to know
smile. I was just smiling at the introduction of the blog.
She didnt see her period for 5month and she thought it was infection after having sex.
she truly is naive.
and forget it, not to be hypocritical in nature, if a pregnancy come at the wrong time and it is discovered on time, my friend take it out before it destroy a lot of things.
I am not saying its a good thing or people should take advantage of it,, but if you truly have a future, taking it out before it develop is the best thing
What if the pregnancy leads to losing her life or womb? We can't be too sure of the outcome bro.
I respect everyone's decision though.
Thats why there is prevention. Honestly people need to take this sex education stuff serious. Most parent dont even talk anything about sex to their kids thinking they are spoiling them but it the other way round. They are only sending them to the damn world without enough knowledge or skills to overcome many challenges that could have been avoided yet blame them when they fall victim
We are all entitled to our decisions however I see that the young girl was just naive about the whole thing but then a lady who knows what sex is all about should also know the possible after effects of sex.
This could be a tough decision for many, but I share same opinion with you
It's always a hard decision to make, sometimes one might not think straight. It's easy for the ladies to keep but difficult for the guys.And for ur friend, maybe she had once had a case of infection and thought it was it again.