Does it really matter 🤔

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I presented this topic as a debate to my friends and one of them said it would be much easier for the man to be older than the woman than the woman to be older than the man, though it's his own opinion but he also has his point to back it up with which brings me to the part where I say everyone actually has their own views and opinions but what really matters in your own relationship.

IF IT WERE YOU?
My own dreams for a relationship would be for the man to older than me because I want someone matured enough to handle my excess, love me for my wrongs and rights and I don't think I would see these with someone that isn't matured enough to take control of his emotions talk more of mine.

AGE GAP😲

But if it were me that is older than the man it's no taboo what will really matter is if we get to understand each other, be in the same page together, have the same view of life plus dreams. I wouldn't want to be with someone who only thinks at the level of his age grade which would likely limit my own views and prospect.

I only watch it in movies where the woman is older than the man and in such relationship the man treats the woman disrespectful in view that she wouldn't have any other options than to be with him because at those points in your life that you date a man younger than you because you have humbled down and just want to settle down at those moments.

There were even instances where the young, bright, handsome and smart guy dating an older woman tends to be the one extorting money from the money to the point where it's even the woman that works hard and gives the man money to pay her bride price just in light of wanting to settle down🤷.

All these things happens all around us which makes people see such relationship in a different light but what really matters is what you wants and how you want it, I wouldn't say it's a taboo or even a sin but what I will really say is DO WHAT YOUR HEART DESIRES 😊

Thanks for reading through with me please do drop your comments below it would be an honour to reply them.

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There are such challenges in which such relationship encounters communication problems. That's a given. But the point of a relationship is to always put the work together. Thank you for sharing!

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You've said it all 👌

But if it were me that is older than the man it's no taboo what will really matter is if we get to understand each other, be in the same page together, have the same view of life plus dreams. I wouldn't want to be with someone who only thinks at the level of his age grade which would likely limit my own views and prospect.

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