Life Update: HBD GIVEAWAY!!! (A Distress Rant)
Hey hey, so it's me, @josediccus here. So I will be doing a giveaway in HBD January, possibly from the 3rd to the 5th of January, I'll make a post, then do the giveaway. However, I'm going to set some terms and conditions, just to encourage those who are doing their best with and for hive, and create a lively mood for the beginning of the year. Rest assured, I'm not doing this because I have too much, I just want to reach out to others.
Giving isn't particular about one party being rich or poor, it's just about extending a hand. I'm a very spiritual person, and lately, I feel I have meandered away from my faith and cultivated some reckless living, but with the many events happening in my life lately, I feel drawn back to my faith, because that is probably the only way. A lot of doctors here are confused about my health situation, so many of them have diagnosed wrongly, and some of them are rather confused, as to what to do.
Some others have basically run me dry, took away a lot of emergency savings, and left me having to depend on my aunt to feed. (Mostly because I feel no motivation to even do kitchen duties). I do not blame them, cutthroat doctors parading degrees are mostly what we have in Nigeria, and to be very honest I'm just tired of seeing their greedy faces. The ones in the general hospital are no better, poor, and mostly inexperienced. So I really do not understand anymore, and this is why I'm hoping I can leave Nigeria in search of a better living abode and medical exposure.
I currently do not have any resources to pull this off, I stopped working 6 years ago, after one being month bedridden, since then I've lived minimally, surviving and taking hustling online, but with the way it is, I don't think there's anything in this country for me anymore, and I really do need to better my health. Back to the giveaway, it's my way of just making someone smile, it might really not be life-changing, but going forward, I'll regularly put up posts and support those who are putting in their best on the chain. Again, this will happen in the first week of January. I just want to recover first from my five-week hiatus of seeking good medical care to no avail. I discovered a lot of people have been good to me, offline and online and even if I can't pay them back, all I can do is appreciate and be better to another person.
My brother has recently died, and while I'm still in that agony, I want to keep going to keep a stable health. My anxiety has messed up my cardiovascular system, and I truly, truly want to take of things I can control and leave the rest. I want to get married in 2024. With all the troubles in my life, maybe I need someone who would share in this pain. (Even if that might be too harsh to ask) I did my share of hunting, and to be very honest, I stopped when I discovered that not a lot of people want that health uncertainty, some people just want a blissful marriage, and not giving it to them would be harsh.
It might be a long shot, but having a partner, a baby, and something solid. I just don't have the energy to fight the health challenges I'm incapable of handling despite how hard I've tried. It's a long shot, and life has become lonelier by the day, with no friends, little or no family, and nothing else, maybe it's time to have those people who I can truly call family again. So for the giveaway, it's on, if you're lucky enough to be on the chain that day and meet the criteria, then some HBD to start the year. See you in the first week, cheers.
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Honestly, this is amazing. It takes a lot of courage for someone who is in need to give out, and I admire your courage.
I understand how you must feel about having a life partner and starting a family. Yes, it gets to that point In our lives when we have to start making those consideration so we will have people to grow old with and care for.
I hope I'll be around for the giveaway, it not, good luck to those participating.
Sorry about the country and how the medical professionals are not helping matters yet succeed in extorting you. I hope you get well soon. I am deeply sorry for your lost.
Goodluck for the giveaway, hopefully by January.
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Giving doesn't mean one is richer than the other person but in a way to show gratitude and helping put smile on another person. This is sincerely a nice idea from you. I am happy you are spiritual person who wants to get back on faith, knowing it is only God that is capable of doing what no man can do; all most people will do is to extort money from you with nothing of help to do. But I am sure, God will come in for you plus your plan of travelling out of the country.
It's good getting married too especially with the right partner who you can always talk to and one who would be there for you too.
Okay, first week in January, I hope to remember this and for that reason, I am reblogging this post so that once I keep seeing it, it would make me remember 😀
Thank you for the giveaway in advance. Take care of yourself till then.
Yeah, giving doesn't mean one is rich, just about spreading positive vibes, and for me, it's just trying to be in the right frame of mind for next year, irrespective of my uncertainties. Okay, thanks for sharing. For the giveaway, yeah, first week of January, it'll definitely happen
Alright. Till then 🫠
I hope you will find the right partner who will share in your life goals and more importantly, be ready to help you through your health challenges.
Sorry for the most of your brother as well I hope that he continues to rest in peace.
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Thank you for your kind words, I wish for a remodelling in every ramifications of my life.
Ok this your post just inspired me to give out something offline. Thank you for this post. And it's a good idea to start a family of your own. All the best.
It's always the best. I was inspired too by this deep sense of responsibility. Thank you for the kind words
I'm so sorry to hear about your brother and your health :( ... Is there any option for you to get remote care???
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The healthcare is basically useless here. Even after paying a lot of money you still don't get qualified specialist, mostly bunch of amateurs who really don't know what to do
I believe that Hive has some doctors, perhaps one of them could help remotely?
Yeah there are, but mostly it's not their area of specialization. Cardiology for example.
Out of everyone here, we must have at least one cardiologist, or someone who can connect you to one
I have actually connected with a lot of doctors, I didn't find any.
I'm sorry to hear that :( Don't give up though...
Well, I don't even know what to do anymore, the mental and physical exhaustion has been the hardest
I’m surprised to know you were once bedridden. Don’t worry, you’d be fine. It’s really crazy when doctors are acting confused but with faith, you’d be good
Well, it's a world where life can get difficult for some people.
There you go! Finally! Some optimism and the wheels of planning started to turn. There is light at the end of the tunnel. And that is not the train. :) I'm happy for you that you started to make big plans for the future.
Well, I won't really call it big plans, I just think of it as taking the baby steps. I still curl up my bed uncertain about everything and life in general, but I just have to consider the baby steps
When you think about finding someone to share life with and marriage, I consider it a big plan. :) Even though you're still going through tough times, that's not a small step, in my opinion.
See you... you are planning to do something very nice. That's very beautiful. It has been hard. But, it is nice knowing you even had the thoughts on giving to others. Thank you for staying strong.
Thank you, well. I feel that the new year should start on a better note, irrespective of how life is currently different for me at the moment, and someone should benefit off it too.
Yes, the new year should start off nicely. That's a wonderful way to go. Have a good day 😊.
Seriously, this captured my entire soul, Jose. And it's inspiring.
And, about having a life partner, that's really an amazing idea. At least they are the family you can build with and call your own. I wish you get well soon to fullfil all your wishes. And success on the giveaway. God is always in control.
Thank you for the kind words, well, it's true, I have come to believe that anyone can give, one's financial state might not even be an excuse at all. It's mostly in the mind
I am glad that you are starting to look forward and I hope you can get out of Nigeria. It sucks to hear that the doctor visits did not solve your issue. It's nice to see a giveaway but make sure to take care of yourself first.
I am always looking forward to better myself, it just hasn't worked so far, it's a hell hole in this country to be very honest.
Congratulations in advance to you bro on your marriage, I admire your kindness of giving to others.
It's good that such competitions will be held, I will definitely try to participate in it, it will be beneficial that more people will come to your posts.
God never forget or abandon his own, I believe you will testify of his faithfulness soon, I read this whole post but I am mostly concerned about your wishes and sooner than later heaven will shine it’s light upon you, we will pray with you Jose, God be with you and bless you brother…