Breaking Free from the Chains of a Toxic Relationship

Sometimes we get into a relationship knowing the other person but ain't have no idea when exactly it become toxic with the person you thought is meant to be yours in this life.

lot of person get caught in the toxicity and it has so many impact on your life. There was a time when something like this happened to me and at some point when it was just too much I had to move on for own good.

Well, let's Get started with this storytelling.

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The time when I was not in a toxic relationship

It was all fine we both had so many things in common and liked each other. Used to talk a lot and share everything which was honestly my first relationship until now i had no other than that.

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Yea, for boys even after 50 years he will be like oh once there was a girl he liked or had crush.

when it turned into a Toxic relationship

So, after months of our relationship when I started to focus more on my career side and had stopped talking to her like before that's where the problem started.

The problem was that typical you don't talk with me cuz you are maybe busy with other girl or found someone new; doesn't make sense duh ain't no one ever send me a DM other than the bots.

It become toxic like I'm trying to focus on work, giving more time to family and responsibilities still giving her time but in that whole time it's too toxic conversation instead of something good that wasn't good at all.

And than I had some issues within family that I never told anyone nor I could share with her. Like that was one of worst times and trying to come out of that situation and when I needed her support most that toxicity ruined it all.

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The Peace of Mind was more important

I realized thing's can't go on like this forever and peace of mind is something more important. Can't just wait and see affect on mental health than doing something was the only option.

So, I decided to end it all and move on with life which was hardest part of this whole situation.

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It took months to not look back or think of her and just prayed for her cause you can't think bad of someone you care and love.

Letting Go can bring Good

One thing I learnt from this relationship was letting go is something a good choice when it can bring Good in your life.

She may have thousands other options but there's my mom and I can't ruin myself for someone.

From that day till now it's been years and have never thought of going into relationship again. Focusing on life goals, trying to make things better and socialize in real life which is more like a comfort and way much better than being in a relationship for me and in the end hopefully you don't have experienced anything like this but if you did let me know in comments.

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Fin.

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