The morale we keep and the results we get

For some days now, a lot of things has been taken place in my life, I wouldn't say, what happens are things, I haven't experienced before, because I do, and it comes ones in a blue moon.

As a man we are battling with challenges in our daily life's and it is this challenges on the other hand, that is going to act as something that would keep you going and never stop looking as you are making some magnificent progress.

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I happened to be so emotionally down, since the beginning of the year and it's has affected me so badly, I would wake up in the morning and the only thing I would think of is going to be ways to continue to be sad with myself and all this happens without a reason, because it is just now that I have to think about it, and I was like, "whoah whoah whoah" even on this day I would be sad, nothing has that provocation has ever brought to my table.

It is good to share something that is bothering you with someone, because something you need to hear about your mood at the moment might be just be clear to the person next to you and he would have the right answer you could get.

I opened up to my friend this morning, that I am finding so hard to be happy and it just came up without a reason, maybe, it is because of something I have been wanting and I could not get then I forget about it and it now crop in as a mood and it began to disturbed me, I am always finding myself aggressive of something, therefore, he make me know that keeping such feelings is the worst because it's going to stopped me from doing things betterly and on the other hand, it would not provide me with even the things I thought I needed.

After we left the restaurant, that was where we sat and ate soup and garri, as I came back home the only thing I was giving more thoughts was what my friend said, and to be frank, he was right because, instead of me to be sad about myself or something I may not remember how it begun, why can't I try as much as possible to do the things I can and with times, all other things are going to fall in places for me, because the worst is, allowing the situation to tied me down and not doing anything to help myself out of it.

My father said it uncountable times that frowning of face doesn't help matters, rather, instead of having an uneasy mindsets, a person should convert that same energy into something else that is going to provide something tangible in their life's.

And to be precise, no day I keep a frowning face that I get something good out of it. Because, once I was in a car going to Lagos, and when I was not happy in the park as the driver wasted our time for nothing sake, I saw the person besides me telling me not to think too hard, that everything was going to be fine, it was just like, he was reading my mind, but in everything of that, he didn't, I believed, he was just someone who has been there before and he has had the experience, that allowing our heart to be too tight and without a breathing space, thus, might make us not to be able to be productive for ourselves.

In as much we want a friendly living, there are some mood w shouldn't keep to ourselves, because a particular mood we keep determine our actions, if a person's is angry, he can do anything because of the annoyance inside of him, on a normal day nobdoy would want to fight but we see people fighting sometimes, that is because, they do not keep a happy mood to theirself.

Cheerfulness is necessary in our life to helped us gained a great ground for ourselves.