Material thing's ends a lot of friendship, it just happened to me
It hurts to know that someone you called your friend do not appreciate you in real sense, but he is only around you because of the material thing's you have to offer to him when he want it, and if, that material thing isn't there anymore, or go outdated as the case maybe, he would leave you alone all by yourself to be lonely.
A week ago, my friend came to me, I would not mention his name because it isn't nice to do so, and he asked that, I gave him my mp3 radio, so, I gave it to him and getting to this morning, when he was going out to work, he returned it to me and he even thank me for allowing him to used my mp3 radio up to a week without me bothering him. I didn't even know what he said were not from his heart.
I just got a call from someone working with him in their office, and the person was telling me what my friend said in my absent, "that I was not talking to him again because he was using my mp3 and for that reason, he is going to buy his own mp3 radio and starting from today, he is going to have nothing to do with me, because he will got himself a radio that is going to be even bigger than mine".
When the person was narrating everything to me. It seems like children's talk, maybe, some of those things we used to do when we were in primary school, but to get everything straightened, he was serious about it, and the worst of it was that, when I lend my mp3 to my friend, I never called him or get angry that I was sad because he was using my radio, rather, I was happy giving it to him because he was my friend and friends should share what they have.
I do not like it when someone reports another person's actions to me, but in this case, I was somehow happy the person who reports what my friend said to me did, because it was about me and I have the right to know when someone talk to me pertaining something I didn't do.
I told him "thank you for letting me know" My friend working place is far from where I stay, so, I gave him a call and I wanted to confirm why he said those things he said about me, but with all those calls I called him, he hasn't returned any and he is silent at me.
I gave him a little time to get through, and maybe, he was at something in the office and he will called back but I haven't seen a call from him, it was from there that I knew what I was told was true.
I was somehow tired when I find out through his actions and I didn't even know when I fall asleep, the mp3 radio that was playing songs were becoming a nuisance to my ear, so I switched it off, and when my phone rang, I answered it, and it was my friend and before I could say an "Hello" he started rapping and telling me to stop calling his line.
He said it openly that he doesn't want to be my friend anymore, and to me, it seems like magic, because I can not tell of the reason he is acting the way he did to me.
He is my lovely friend, but for the love I had for him, I have to let him be, maybe, staying away from me, is the thing that is going to give him happiness.
Maybe it is the way that it was meant to be, my friend just became my enemy because of material thing.