Learn to stay on your own
This days, most of the times, I stay on my own without mingling with anybody, I do not do this because I am hating on people or because I do want to associate, rather, I am taking myself away from the utmost competition in the life of people now in the world.
People enjoyed competition this days than any other thing, and right now, I gave it a more deeper thought, and I never stopped to think about, "when and how mange do we get here" because the whole thing of a competition lifestyle is so alarming.
I could remember that it wasn't like this two years ago, and then why does it feels like, people are into the competition level at the apex, I was chatting with a friend and we discussed about the competition that is ongoing, I brought the topic because I wanted to know if people in his location are behaving the same way with what I encountered at my location.
Because, how could another person got so into what another person's buy, the person buys it because he was saving his money for that thing he buys, so you that just see it, you allowed your body to be doing you as if you want the same thing, even do you want it, must it be that time, I mean, you can not buy something you didn't budget and saved money for.
So, when I raise the topic on a chat with my friend, he responded to me that he wanted to be the first person to come up with this topic, because even in Lagos, people are competing each and everyday and it is not good.
For quite sometimes now, I have refused to do thing's with my peers who are into the competition lifestyle, because I can not just do it, and be following them to compete in whatever a person's acquired.
Last week one of my neighbor bought a costly wrist watch and someone who saw when he came back began to question where he bought the wrist watch that he wants something like this, he did it as if he was waiting for the person to buy the wrist watch, so that he now go and buy his own.
The reason for all of this is because he wants to compete with the person, instead of him to used his money in buying something else that might benefit his life, he wants to buy the same thing his neighbor bought.
Even when he was wearing a shiny wrist watch on his ankle, he still wants that same wrist watch that he saw from another person, this is why I stop associating for now, I am waiting for when the competition would come and go, because everything that reigns will still go.