Keep low pressure with challenges
In life, one way or the other we must face a particular challenges, but how do we reacts to each of this challenges, according to what I understand, I have realized that, all challenges are solved, when we never stop doing that hustling and chasing a better life.
Before, I was always so weak, I mean, I will allow myself to be weak and tired, when I am facing a certain challenges, but now, life has taught me something and, that's I should not be weak at all, when I am facing a challenges, rather, I should allow that challenges to be a way breaker for me to excel more and finds more opportunities to live a better life.
Because, it is either we like it or not, everyday has a challenge, it will deposits to us, so it does not mean, since we have came across it that day, we must tackle it that day, yes, it would be a great thing, if a person has the ability to settle challenges immediately, but even if we don't do it as soon, we can still look after it, another day and see that, it's settled.
I have met someone, who told me that, he is minding how he picked his family's and relatives calls, because he doesn't want them to imposed any bill on him, I finds it odd, from what he said, because as long as I know, everyone has challenges and even if most of the people in our family looks up to us, maybe, want us to carter for them, if we told them, we has something at hand, so we will have love to helped but we can't now, because we too, are on tasks we want to fulfilled, I hope they will understands us, because everyone has challenges.
It's so unfair to avoid a relative call because he has asked you for financial help once and you conclude he is going to asked again, the relative might not want to asked for that, but was just calling to check on you, which is what relatives can do, honestly, I was not happy about his reasoning because I see that he was running away from challenges and he chooses money over people.
Even if we needs money for our daily routine, it is person's that have money on their bank account or decentralized wallets and not money that has person's, with the way he was arranging the whole thing, it seems he authorize that money own us.
I have been in his shoes so I know how it feels about a thing like this, but right now, I can not be afraid of a challenge, because I turned every challenges into my strength.