How to Have an Attractive Personality | 5 Personality Development Tips

Hey All,

Everyday we meet a lot of people, but out of those there are few, we find really attractive and get very impressed with their personality. For such kinds of people we generally say, “Wow!! His personality is so good”. If you observe closely you will notice that people with attractive personalities have a very positive aura around them and they are always smiling.

Not just that you will also notice, that these are the ones whom everyone seems to like, they are even invited to parties and to top it all up they are the ones getting the promotions also. Naturally, we all want that our personality also becomes like them. So without much ado let us take a look at 5 biggest traits which can help you make your personality impressive:

5 Ways To Make Your Personality Impressive:

5: Like People Genuinely:

Have you been through a scenario where you talk to someone very nicely and in return you get a very rude reply. That is when we are doubtful and be like lo! I have been talking so nicely and still get such a rude response.

But, before blaming the other person, take time to look within yourself and ask “Do you really like that person” or it was just outwardly you were trying to be nice to him/her. See it's very crucial for us to understand this, whatever we think negative or positive about the person the vibes reach them and they get the feeling.

Therefore try to understand people and like them genuinely from your heart. Instead of looking at their negatives try looking for the good in them. Try not to get irritated. Instead, think that people are not generally bad; they have been coming from a different background and probably their circumstances are not all that favourable. Try to like people from the bottom of your heart and you will notice that soon you will also start receiving the same love and understanding.

#4: Greet People With A Smile On Your Face:

Imagine your friend is coming, you see him and a beautiful smile spreads on your face, right? Your smile indicates that the person coming is someone you like and admire. This same thing applies to all relationships in our life. Therefore, whenever you meet someone make sure to greet them with the most beautiful smile.

This will make them like you, they will be happy meeting you, and chances of you not receiving a smile for a smile is less. If you are not doing this, then start practicing it. A smiling face is hundred times better than a frowning one plus this beautiful smile of yours will make your personality even more attractive.

#3: Start Keeping “You” Before “I”:

Think this! Whom will you like more, a person who is always blabbering about himself, or someone who is genuinely interested in listening to what you have to say. Obviously, you will go for the later one. If you observe carefully you will notice that everyone seems to be just talking about themselves, thinking about them. “I am like this”, “I like doing this”, “I don’t like that”... etc.

You do it differently, how about instead of just thinking about yourself you also think about other people. You ask others how they are? before starting about yourself. Questions like, “how are you?”, “What do you do?”, “What do you like?” etc. I bet, if you start doing this people will start appreciating you more.

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Not just actors, writers or cricketers want an audience, common people also like people or audiences to listen to what they have to say. And when you give a listening ear to them and become their audience, you tend to become special to them. When you keep doing the same for others also, a lot of people start liking you and in this process when you change from a common person to an impressive personality goes unnoticed. A personality whom everyone likes, admires and gets influenced with.

#2: Listen Before Speaking:

When you take interest in the person in front of you, there should be a sense of honesty in it. If you ask them a question “What do you like?” you have not asked it so that you just quickly listen to that person's answer and then immediately get started with your whole story.

No! You are supposed to not just allow the person to talk his heart out but also honestly ask genuine questions related to what he/she is talking about. For example: If someone is telling you that they like travelling, you can ask them what their favourite vacation destination is. And which places are good there? We have to understand that good listeners can never go out of demand. Become a good listener and see your personality and demand grow.

#1: Help Others Selflessly:

Many times we are in a situation where we can help someone, if we really want to. But, we don’t, may be because of laziness or just thinking that how will this benefit me, we tend not to help. On the contrary, a person with a cool personality never leaves a chance to help others, and they do it very willingly and happily.

Obviously! By this I don’t mean that you leave everything at hand and start helping people. But whenever or wherever you can take some time out to help others. By sparing a few moments of your time if you are able to help someone, this will not just be great for them but you will also feel wonderful.

Hopefully now you know some very simple steps you can take to make your personality even more charming.

Best Regards!

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