You don't have to bend over always

Many times people would always want you to be right and understanding just because it involves them but when it is their turn to reciprocate the same energy, they tell you they are not cut out for those shit.

I know our character and personality are due to our past experiences and nobody is perfect, so forgiveness and maybe on some occasions understanding and empathy are needed but it shouldn't be always because that will only create people to use you.

On some occasions when possible, stand your ground and let them know that you are also human and blood flows in your veins as such, you feel exactly how they feel and your feelings shouldn't be taken for granted.

Most times in life, you don't have to bend over to meet people, they can actually straighten up to meet you. Most times you don't have to be the understanding kind of person, so people don't actually walk on your kind heart.

Those who want you to give excuses for their excuses can actually be good if you decide not to always give excuses for them, those who give the excuses that not everyone is perfect in a bid to cover up their bad doings can realize that they could be perfect in some things especially if they have no one to listen to their sorry excuses.

Most times, you don't need to bend over for anyone, for them to be comfortable while you are uncomfortable over something you both can actually come to a more comfortable decision to favour everyone involved. Let them straighten up to meet you standing so that they too can be in that position they want you to be while they feel comfortable.

It doesn't have to be you doing all the job, let them have a test of the cake they are giving to someone else, so they too can understand that although nobody is perfect but it does not erase the fact that we need to work on ourselves for the sake of our lives and others. Most times you don't have to bend over to meet the needs of others, and you don't have to deprive yourself of fun and happiness to meet those of others, most times you just have to let them do their thing while you do yours.