Life Happens

Life happens to everyone, it even gets so bad that the friends you thought you were going to be together with decide to hurt it and move on with their lives like nothing happened, at this point there is nothing you or anyone can do about it because life happens, just maybe you all weren't meant to become or stay friends forever.

We are in a world where fate still works and when it is time for fate to play a role or a fast one on us, it does it without our permission. When fate realizes that our time being friends is up, it does things that make us go our separate ways.

It's okay to get hurt when these people hurt you but most times it is better to forgive and let go, so you can move on with your life, it does not mean you are being friends with that person, it only means you have accepted fate and realized that life happens.

These people don't have to be your enemy, you don't have to create enmity between yourself and them, and you don't have to walk around with hatred for that person in your heart, most times life happens.

A one-time friend reached out to me a few days ago, which of course I did appreciate but the first statement she used on me was "I know we are enemies and you hate me" When I saw that message, I was provoked and I replied her immediately that what happened between the both of us is called "distance and it happened as a result of her hurt but never will I see her as an enemy or hate her because I have no reason to.

Yes she hurt me and that caused our separation and maybe hatred but I do not have that time to hate anyone or see someone as an enemy because I have a lot to do on my plate, and I do not have the space on my head or heart neither do j have the time to be thinking about such things because I am busy.

Most times the people who hurt us and incurred our hatred do not even know that they are in such a place in your heart because they are busy doing something better for themselves, so why the hate, why the enmity? Life happened and it is high time we learn to accept that. Instead of wasting your energy and time hating someone, use that same energy to create a new circle of friends, build new friendships, grow it, and use that same energy to make money, it will yield profit.