Have control over your actions

A story about a man who was rushing for an interview and, at some point on his way was hindered from moving because of a woman's car that got spoiled in the middle of the road. Instead of politely driving off when the road was cleared, he shouted at the woman calling her derogatory names. When he got to the interview, and was called in, he was surprised to see the lady he cursed out on the road walk in to interview him. He was shocked and started apologizing to her for cursing out at her without any reason.

The lady was torn between letting such a man with a foul mouth and manners work in such an establishment as it was a business outlet. She was afraid of him one day cursing at his co-workers or a customer one day, and she didn't want to just dismiss him because of his earlier character based on personal issues.

She finally decided to leave the interview room and have someone interview him because she didn't want to react based on personal issues she had earlier in the day.

Many of us like this man, are out of control, they do not have control over our words and actions, and we are always ready to show who we are even when situations do not require them. Many people even with their beauty and handsome get a bad stare and shrug off the shoulder when they pass by people because of their stinking attitudes.

We know most times you have to speak up, we know most times you have to let people know you are hurt by their actions by reacting but do that with a reason and not because you have the mouth to do that. Let your actions accompany your rights, and don't be in a rush to showcase how unmannered and uncouth you can be because you are trying to prove a baseless point, don't forget it will always come back at you.

No matter how beautiful, handsome, wealthy, or connected you may be, if you do not have control over your actions, you are a ticking time bomb waiting to explode. I am not saying you should act like a dullard in all cases, but know when necessary action is needed.