Beauty or Brains; What Have You Got?

The struggle to "have and hold" is real. The pressure is real. Many ladies are already carried away by the desire to have those butterflies in their tummy.

By any means possible, they desire to get a man who would walk them down the aisle in no distant time; and not just any type of man, but a man that ticks a lot on their list, but the sixty-four dollar question is this, how many ladies are rightly positioning themselves to get the type of man they desire?

How many are working towards becoming their spec's spec?

We know that it is the role of a man to find his woman, however, in life, there is something called positioning and another called preparation. Aside having character related 'dramas,' many ladies are nothing near the desire of the type of man they seek to attract.

Like I said in my book, no one is stopping a lady from becoming rich.

You can be single and useful.

You can be single and rich.

You can be single and making money.

While you desire a rich spouse, seek to be and work towards becoming a rich partner. Truth is, many ladies are not fit for the type of partner they seek to have.

Wealthy ✅.
Own six cars ✅.
Properties in high places, etc ✅.

As the desirer of these things, which do you have? Which can you comfortably afford?

I am of the opinion that as a lady, you should build yourself to become the kind of person you want in a partner and seek to attract.

A good-looking guy would want a good-looking lady. A rich guy would want a rich lady. It's simple; we get attracted to our kind.

Targeting a rich guy to marry when you have absolutely nothing in your name is scam.

While you await the arrival of your Mr. Richie Rich, ensure you are not waiting in penury and zero skill.

Get knowledge. Equip yourself. Make money. Your partner should find you being useful to God, to man, and to yourself.

Marriage is not a poverty alleviation plan. Help yourselves, ladies!

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