Weekend-Engagement: My controversial opinion //wk 193

Do you have a controversial opinion on something? What is it and why do you have it? Do you hold back on voicing it or are you happy to share it around, to promote it...either way, explain why. Remember to use your own photos.

Hello everyone, I welcome you to my blog. Happy Sunday to you all

It is with great pleasure I am participating in this week's topic, the moment I saw this one I knew I had to write something on it.

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, I don't force mine on anyone and I don't allow anyone force theirs on me, it is a free world. As introverted as I can be I never cease to speak my truth and say whatever it is from my mind.

One of the controversial opinion I have is about premarital sex, I don't hold it back and I voice it out at any opportunity I get, people having the mindest that a relationship cannot work without sex or if there won't be intimacy is a topic that usually brings forth argument.

I have a group of teenagers which we learn together at the fashion shop, even though I am older than them, I relate with them normal, we all know our boundaries

I observe this topic didn't go well with them and they feel uncomfortable anytime this doesn't go their way. When I first got there I was told there is still a young girl who hasn't resumed because she just gave birth, I was eager to know her and when she resumed we started talking, she is a loving and humble girl, through our discussion I realized she was remorseful, despite the mistake, she tries to be happy, she has been forced into a responsibility she wasn't prepared for.

Another one who was just a Jss3 student got pregnant and aborted it, even though it was successful, but she became a shadow of herself, a girl that was very chubby and beautiful has lost focus, she began to avoid coming to shop due to the fact that everyone had an idea of what she did. Like I said earlier, I relate with them normally, I never for once talk about their mistakes i don't want them to feel uncomfortable.

People can call me old school or not exposed I still don't support premarital sex, it has caused more havoc no matter how they term it interesting, it has cost some their lives, incurable disease and a lot of regrets.

*Thanks to @galenkp for the topic