I leave it to God
A friend of mine called me and told me about his health condition and the way he sounds, I already know he is going through a lot because he was diagnosed the test shows he suffers from a disease. This guy is troubled, and he said he has not been sleeping for days, and he has no one to open up to, so he decided to open up to me. This guy is worried because his health issue is out of control, and drugs can not do anything about it; it is only a miracle that can save him.
I could not say much because I was once in his shoes. I was just worried about things that were out of control. I couldn't get my mind off it because I couldn't control it before I knew it another complication arose, I couldn't focus on any other thing, and different problems started to arise, I was having just one problem but before I knew it, my problem multiplied, and everything started to fall apart for me.
I don't even know how I got out of my situation. Still, one thing I am certain of was the genuine love that I was surrounded with. I have people around me and God. so I advise my friend not to worry too much and that everything will be OK, worrying will not change anything; it will only complicate things and make his life miserable, and one of the best things you can do, is he slowly shaped thoughts and look for a way forward. I know this is not easy especially if you are alone.
How can we truly control or change things we don't have power over?
It's common for people to worry when faced with different situations. As humans, worrying is a natural response, and the intensity of it varies based on how much the situation affects us. Often, we find ourselves worrying about things that are beyond our control or situations we can't change. We understand that these situations will eventually have an impact on us in some way. With experience comes the ability to let go of worries about things or situations that are beyond our control.
What can we do change our situation
One of the questions we ask about a situation we can't control and even though you do things about it, it will not change anything. What are the things for you to do? Some people will just tell you to wait and see how everything goes and Just accept your fate, and we should let The Universe decide it but the truth is, is that the right thing to do? Is there a way we can let the universe hear us?
In Africa, there are certain external forces that are beyond scientific explanation. This is why spirituality is prevalent among the people, and different religions are practiced. in Africa, people talk about spirits and supernatural occurrences due to experiencing unexplainable situations.
As for me, I believe in supernatural beings, the one I believe in is God and I leave all my problems to him especially the ones that are beyond my control, I know that my actions will not change the situation, so what I do instead is just pray to him, and I can tell you for a fact that most times, miracles always happen in my life, things just happen beyond explanation, and I would see a positive result.
I know we all have ways of approaching situations like this, but that's just my secret, and just feel like sharing with you that when I'm in a situation that I know is beyond my power I leave it to God.
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Your friend really needs total emotional support now and needs people to be around him to cheer him to see hope even though he seems to give up
I believe also that is what he needs because, during our trying times, We need people who show us genuine love.
I know what it feels for one's health situation to trouble them. My own has been there since birth and losing my only brother even heightened my fears and makes me lose sleep everyday. That kind of news can unsettle a person, and it's only God that will determine if we'll win some battles or come out of a painful situation. As for your friend he can only hope now and pray.
That kind of news will unsettle us, but I believe that is when we must be strong and focus on praying for miracle
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Life has a way of pushing us to the extent of thinking we can control the uncontrollable. However that doesn't imply we should not act on our issues, but we should do our possible best and leave the rest for God. Because without him no amount of effort matters it'll still look like we are not doing enough. But with God, all things are possible.
In that situation, we can only try our best and leave the rest for good, but it is not ideal to just sit there and do nothing.
It is good that you are there to be supportive to your friend. When one is not well it is certainly stressful and it is worse when one is alone. Health is indeed our wealth - without it everything stops.
One's faith is also a good thing - often it is a good source of comfort and hope.
There are things that are beyond our capability and we need to have the courage and humility to accept our limitations and leave them to the One who knows better.
I lived in a state of constant worry for almost two years. It has literally wrecked my world and my mental health. Luckily I got over and when you get over you realize it's so simple... Overthinking and worrying for too much is such a killer...
Worrying about things that are beyond our control often makes it worse during this sort of situations. Great that he has someone to open up to, keeping it inside might be unbearable.
In all fairness, there are some certain conditions or situations in this life that are beyond our control and understanding. Beating one's self about it won't help matter, but only complicate things. Just advise your friend to leave everything for God. I know that this life is more of spirituality than the physical. I pray he receives divine healing.
It sucks to hear that your friend is trouble but there isn't much he can do about those uncontrollable situations. They can just try their best to research or change their situation, but if that doesn't work, then it's all up to luck. At least he can be happy that you are there to emotionally support him. Maybe just having him talk about the issue would at least help him relieve some stress though.
That is what I told him, so worrying without actually doing something only results in more problems. Should put the worry aside and pray to God and research Maybe they can find the cure
It is a good thing you were able to listen and talk to your friend, at least that will encourage him to keep pushing.
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