Confidence is the sure way of winning

I have seen a lot of people who are so good in what they are doing, I mean if they could stand out of the crowd in that niche and make a performance, they would come out best but because they lack the ability to see themselves in the professional side then continue doing as if they are beginner in their professions.

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In any field of life one find itself, the person should depict self confidence, because, a person might know something but because of the way he is reacting towards it, it would seems he has no much ideas about what he is claiming to be doing.

Once I was at a tailor shop, I went there to sew an attire, I love the style I saw and I wanted just the same style of dress, so when I got to this tailor shop, he measurement me and about the style of dress I said I wanted, his words were he can sew it for me perfectly, and he is someone who has sow about seven clothes for me, so in each of those clothes he sew, I love all and whenever I wear any of them, it would suit me so well.

But about this particular style I want him to sow for me, he didn't know how to make it perfectly but because he did not want me to look at him as a tailor who can not make all types of men's dress, he got the materials from me, i paid him and he took those materials to someone who he knows can deliver what I need without me complaining about it.

On the day he asked me to go and get it, when I got there, the clothes was ready which is something I like about him, he keeps to his word's, I wore the clothes and it was exactly as what I wanted and I shake him as a a work well done, we were talking and he told me that, he wasn't the tailor who sew that dress but it was because of it that he used his weeknd and learned about the sewing of this style of dress perfectly.

I asked him why didn't he tell me that he can not do it, because i would have taken it elsewhere and have someone else sew it for me, but he told me that it is about confidence, he didn't want me to loose confidence in him, because he is a tailor, it will not be nice if he does that and let me go, what would I say of him.

I came to realize something that he is a tailor who learnt some styles of sewing and he doesn't make it all because he wants to focus so well on that area and all his clients who comes to him are those who request to have that patterns he is so good in, but because I brought in another style, he has do learnt it and since it was still sewing, it didn't take it any day's to knows about it, because it is what he has been doing already.

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