Don't Lower Your Self-esteem, Those Who Know Your Value Will Stay.
One of the worst sign of low self-esteem is reaching out to people, calling them to say something like 'you no longer call me', or 'you have completely neglected me'.
You should be aware that you are a person of value, and those who come around you are privileged to be there, this shows you have high self-esteem for yourself. it is only when you are feeling incompetent that you will see people who stop calling as more valuable than you.
If you really know how valuable you truly are, then you will realize that those who are around you are really privileged. You can call someone and say they neglected you if truly you perceive yourself as someone of high value.
Let people stop reaching out to you, let them stop calling if they wish, if they don't to be your friend any longer it is fine, they are free to unfriend or unfollow you, that should not be a problem because you already know who you are, they already lost someone valuable by doing that.
Don't ever force people to recognize or remember you. Have ever for one day heard about money searching for people? Such thing can never happen, people look for money and not otherwise because it is relevant and has value. Instead of trying to force people to like you, just be relevant and the right people will come, they will start searching for you.
Success does not come to those who are so needy and begging for recognition. If you want to attract success, don't be too clingy .
Know who you are, be relevant, don't be too needy, and definitely the right people would come to you without wanting to leave.