My Involvement Of How I Engage With House Chores
The involvement trying to assist or volunteer in doing house chores sometimes have to do with our upbringing because in most families this is what parents teaches their kids when young so they probably grow with it that means nothing anymore when they notice things that needs to be done at home.
House chores also differs on what guys and ladies like doing the most and as we may know the ladies attention is mostly diverted to the kitchen and then other important things at home while the guys assist mostly in the sitting room depending on who they stay with.
In a relationship this is where you really know if your partner cares to assist or not. I happens to be someone who is used to doing house chores on my own without bothering my girlfriend, though we kind of assist each other but I don't put on the chores for her to do.
She really don't like it when I try to assist her sometimes because she feels it something she can do on her own without bothering me. The truth is that they enjoy it when you assist them in doing the house chores which even make them more happier.
Tell us any tips on how to get out of chores if you know any and want to share your secrets.
Sometimes we really don't feel like to assist or volunteer in doing anything when our partner is already setting things up and we need to find a way out to neglect not assisting. First I feel what is needed is to build trust in the relationship by trying to help or volunteer in doing house chores most times and whenever your not in the mood to do so your partner wouldn't bother.
Though she wouldn't like it if you say you can't help but doing that in a different form will make sense more. I have notice that whenever your partner is doing the house chores and you say to her "can I help", there is an assurance that she would say no because it may look rude to her to start telling you what to do.
Though it depends on how close you guys relate but still that question hits them hard the more. Though it won't work out all the time when you don't assist at all but it would do to free you from doing so when your not in the mood and to back it up more try to kiss her in the cheek, it would balance the situation more.
Good post but you've not used your own images so I'll only give it a small vote. Maybe next time. Also, I see you have self voted which I think is a little selfish. So that reduces the vote I'll give you even further.
I would try and be better next time and I appreciate the feedback.
I will mute any further posts you do here that do not use your own images.
I think the matter is different in each part of the world and depends on the local custom and on the individual too. I think chores should be shared equally as no woman is condemned to do housework and chores.
It Should be shared equally as being said which is what is practiced in most advanced countries but most African countries divert the chores to the women which is really not appropriate though.
I know that and did not want to name countries or continents that do that and even worse. However, this comes down to the individual as no one is going to forbid men to do chores. They chose not to as that's the custom. I hope one day they realize women are not slaves and not objects to own either. It's a slow process, but it needs to happen.
The equality between both genders need to be matched together and that would help balance the situation more.
I agree and I hope you're doing your part :)
Very well.
Haha
The trick here😂
Yeah suggesting to help sometimes seems like a complement to some partners so they mostly turn it down but that invalidate the feelings that you just sit and observe without trying to help which make sense😂.
Thank you for the tip
I have observe that a lot and that's why I feel the compliment should be said if your not in the mood lol.
Yeah
It mostly work the magic
Nice one
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"They like to be helped with household chores." That's undeniable, although there are their exceptions. I know some of them. Regards @bereal47
Yeah they enjoy it more when you help them but I will I appreciate if you share the ones you know as well to neglect not assisting lol.
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