Most of the people play victim in their story, why?
In everyone's life the way people tell you their side of a story based on their observation with one common thing, most of them try to potrait themselves as a victim. I have been observing many people to conclude this observation basing on the way they talk about themselves and the actions they perform in the situations. People show this kind of behaviour to get sympathy from others. Some are having master mind in these kind of things.
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To explain these phenomena, I would assume a two women characters who are related to each other as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It's usual that these two persons don't get along much in indian families. Those who are from India, they would surely know. Not all of them are like this, but most of them are like this. There will always a cold war happening and beginning to erupt into a family war. In these context the mother-in-law will portrait her daughter-in-law as the one who doesn't do any work and didn't take care of necessary things and the daughter-in-law portrait her mother-in-law as the person who doesn't care about her as much as her daughters.
These both play their roles as a victim in their story and none of them are true about themselves. Each will tell their side of story and portrait them as the good and honest person in the situation. The MILs think it as their DILs are having fun instead of their Daughters and the DILs like to think that in their home they don't have to do any work and here they are doing everything (they think they are doing everything but in reality they are just scratching the surface) but still they are not getting the recognition as they should get.
If two persons talk about a third person, the talk will be against that person if that third person is not present and if the third person is present then the matter will be different. If this two persons are separated and make them talk with the third person on different occasions then they will mostly say the same thing that the other person is used to trash talk about the third person when that person is not around. That's really a human trait? I don't think so. Some will play along what ever may be the situation is and they are good at it. Some will stick to what they say and don't change that easily.
A few good deeds don't compensate for the wrongs you have done and some will only talk about that few good deeds only instead of accepting their wrong doings. Some will portrait their wrong doings as the others mistakes and criticise them for it. Some mindless people will be discharging their duties in higher cadres and they will simply stick the mistake of their own on others as don't seem to take the blame.
Some will have a reason readily available with them to postpone a work and make it look like they are doing some serious work in there. But in reality they are just lazy and procrastinating every task they are entrusted with. Some will act as good and say yes to everything others say even though they know that they are saying wrong, these kind people just wanted to avoid the responsibility of saying if a person is good or bad. They simply yes person to the others.
These are the types of person I encountered in my life and I'm simply presenting my views on their behaviour. This article is not in any way means to offend others.